You may have noticed I deleted my post from last night, because I have gathered up enough evidence on my take on recent events on Tumblr.
What’s a simple way to start an argument online? Post your opinion. Simple.
I am aware of the fact that this fandom is not the way it seems, and the amount of hate that goes on. I’m not going to defend anyone anymore. Do I think people have the right to post their opinions? Of course, I’ve always been a firm believer in that, why else do you think I post rants? Preferably, I keep everything bottled up inside, and then someone, it will always be in reality, that I crack and cry everything out.
I’ve been aware of the hate Abigail Hobbs gets. Do I like it? No. Things have gotten out of hand. People NEED to have their opinions. I have a lot, I am a real biased person, and I need to think everything out in my own time, because I am not a hypocrite, nor do I want to be seen as one.
I read the entire Hannibal Lecter series, and have seen all the movies, and of course I will continue to watch the show. I am aware of various ships, and how some people don’t agree with certain ones. Hannigail seems to get the most hate, and yes, it does bother me, I won’t lie, even though I do enjoy more canon ships, and more realistic ones. Hannigail fascinates me, because I do love the idea of an older man and a younger woman, I find it incredibly sexy; hence, a reason I date older men.
I once got hate for an opinion I had in the Twilight fandom, WHICH, need I remind you that I AM apart of. I RP it, and am proud, if you don’t like Twilight, it’s your opinion and I’ll respect it, but it doesn’t mean I have to care. I once told a friend, who is utterly obsessed with Bella, that I wished Aro killed off her and Edward. IF you think about it, no one vampire can kill Aro off, it took two, and they struggled. I was upset when Aro was killed off in the vision scene. People shake their head at me, pardon if I root for the bad guy, like most people do.
Why do I bring this up? Because the fact I got hate, and my friend thinking I was mad at her for my opinion is relevant to here. I will not always agree with what everyone says. I will respect it, and that is that.
People are happy Abigail Hobbs is dead, well have your little truimph, but I will always say that she WAS alive in the books, Bryan Fuller even states that. Okay, simple. If he wants to put a twist, then so be it.
I’d also like to point out the fact that people here RP. People do have the right to have sex with any character they want, should the SL come to it. My Hannibal/Hannibelle has had sex with a Will Graham, and an Abigail Hobbs. Why? Because that’s how the story-line went, and I allowed it to happen, no problem.
I love all the characters on the show. Some of them are bad characters, and I can say “oh that bitch” or “that dumbass” but needless to say, I like the characters, I don’t have a problem with them.
I think this fandom needs some therapy. Being a former psychology student, and future psychotherapist and/or writer, I’ve got a way with words, and I’m here to help. If I have to be Dr. Phil, then so be it.
If I have an opinion, I’ll voice it, and I will try to voice it nicely, unless I am pissed off. If there needs to be a Mean Girls moment, then so be it. A lot of people feel victimized, and it is upsetting.
I’m a compassionate person, and I can be sort of empathetic. I’m not a personal saint, but if I can at least help someone, be an anchor, then that makes me smile.
As a RPer [whose been doing this for YEARS], I’ve been RPing with characters I don’t fancy too much, and I may show it in an RP depending on who my character is, but it won’t stop me from RPing with them. Have I had problems in the RP world before? Yes I have. And when dramatic problems arise, I will turn into a bitch.
If you have your opinions, voice them, but voice them in a kindly and mature manner. If you have a problem with me, or whatever, go ahead, but think about what you say, and how it can affect the other person. Learn from other’s mistakes, and be MATURE so hopefully this fandom can be at it’s best.
—- Madame. —-